Summer is half over and as with people nationwide concerns regarding bugdet cuts to services, inavailability of services that are supportive of our children on the spectrum and the dangers in the community that became more apparent as they get older abound. While I am sure parents overall have concerns about their children being at risk in their community this fear is exacerbated greatly when your child is often oblivious to these dangers because of social skill and comprehension deficits. In the past few weeks I have run into two friends whose teenage sons, once a part of a special needssupport group which has fallen prey to the budgetary axe, both found themselves under arrest. I could debate the circumstances but suffice it to say that this is every mothers nightmare. So what do we do when the mainstream only hear about early intervention. It is as if by some misfortune parents who have not solved this exhaustive puzzle of advocating and searching for appropriate services and therapies simply no longer exist once their child falls out of that window the public eye envisions of a child on the spectrum. Beautiful doe eyed 2, 3, 4 and 5 year olds. What happens when they become 12, 13,16, 19? when insurance companies want to deem their progress insufficient and therefore not medicallly necessary? When schools have decided thier capabilities long before they max out at age 22? When they have too often become prey for others willing to exploit their disability? I lose sleep over the thought that my son will one day find himself in a compromising situation because of his inabiility to discern dangers around him, or people who would use him, hurt him.... So that is my thought for the week. How do you as educators, clinicians and parents affect change in the lives of our preteens and teens and adults with ASD so that mothers like me will not live this nightmare?
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Summer is half over and as with people nationwide concerns regarding bugdet cuts to services, inavailability of services that are supportive of our children on the spectrum and the dangers in the community that became more apparent as they get older abound. While I am sure parents overall have concerns about their children being at risk in their community this fear is exacerbated greatly when your child is often oblivious to these dangers because of social skill and comprehension deficits. In the past few weeks I have run into two friends whose teenage sons, once a part of a special needs support group which has fallen prey to the budgetary axe, both found themselves under arrest. I could debate the circumstances but suffice it to say that this is every mothers nightmare. So what do we do when the mainstream only hear about early intervention. It is as if by some misfortune parents who have not solved this exhaustive puzzle of advocating and searching for appropriate services and therapies simply no longer exist once their child falls out of that window the public eye envisions of a child on the spectrum. Beautiful doe eyed 2, 3, 4 and 5 year olds. What happens when they become 12, 13,16, 19? when insurance companies want to deem their progress insufficient and therefore not medicallly necessary? When schools have decided thier capabilities long before they max out at age 22? When they have too often become prey for others willing to exploit their disability? I lose sleep over the thought that my son will one day find himself in a compromising situation because of his inabiility to discern dangers around him, or people who would use him, hurt him.... So that is my thought for the week. How do you as educators, clinicians and parents affect change in the lives of our preteens and teens and adults with ASD so that mothers like me will not live this nightmare?